Before we can get the right answers, we need to ask the right questions.

Moral decisions are often made with knee-jerk reactions, through emotional filters, or with limited information. Sometimes, they conform to a predominant narrative we have always believed, but never fully or critically examined.

Yet, the decisions are  crucial and that makes the questions crucial.

The Apostle Paul gives us some guidance in his letter to the Corinthians.

“'I have the right to do anything,' you say—but not everything is beneficial. “I have the right to do anything”—but not everything is constructive. No one should seek their own good, but the good of others … So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God. Do not cause anyone to stumble, whether Jews, Greeks or the church of God— even as I try to please everyone in every way. For I am not seeking my own good but the good of many, so that they may be saved." – I Corinthians 10:23-24, 31-33 (NIV)

It is laid out for us with three questions which are self-administered and asked in the light of scripture and the Spirit's scrutiny.

Is it beneficial? I I about to make a decision that will be of benefit or will it be harmful? Is this choice God’s best or just a concession to the moment? Will it help anything or anyone? Is this a the best choice for the moment? Is it beneficial?

Is it constructive? What are the positive results of this choice for the Kingdom? Does it build or destroy? Does it encourage or discourage? Does it lift or tear down? Does it lead on to more good choices or down a path of destruction? Is it constructive?

Is it good for others? How will my choice affect and effect other people? Will it better their lives or make their lives harder? Will it lift their spirits or cause them to feel defeated, berated, or marginalized? Is it good for others?

Then, there is finally, an over-riding issue that encompasses and informs all three questions. It is about God's will, God's purpose, and God's glory.

One Absolute Principle: So, whether you eat or drink, or what ever you do, do it for the glory of God. Do not cause anyone to stumble...